The Influence of Bad friends to our Society

        THE INFLUENCE OF BAD FRIENDS IN OUR SOCIETY
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                  What is influence?
           Influence simply means to let someone do something in their own way or manner either good or bad. 
                   What does bad friends mean to me?
            It simply means a group of close individual who have negative characters.
     
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 LACK OF FOCUS: When an individual lacks direction in life, all is gone because when you don't have a vision, it simply means you don't have direction or area of concentration, you don't know where you are going to or what you want. and definitely, when you dont know where you are going to, someone else will take you to where he or she is going to. so the main thing in life is to be ''focused''.

LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE: In another word lack of self reliance. When you are not self reliant and you don't know what you are doing, it will be easy to confuse you to do or take the wrong part. You won't be able to know what is wrong and what is right in the sense that when bad friends come with their negative advise to influence you, you take to it immediately and once you take to it, it will unconsciously starts ringing bell in your head and from there, it starts corrupting the heart.

IDLENESS: When an individual is idle, he creates chance for different kind of conversation,distraction and there is a saying that an idle mind is the devil's workshop. That is, when you are idle, you create space for the devil and his agent to have chance in your life and you know, no man can serve two masters at a time. It is either you love one and hate the other or vice versa and when you give the devil and his agent a chance, my brothers and sister, that's all, except for God intervention that can save such person. So be wise and don't give the devil a chance at all.                                               

                              HOW CAN WE AVOID INFLUENCE OF BAD FRIENDS? 
1. Don't give the devil or his agent any chance at all 
2. Don't be idle
3. Be self reliance
4. Have focus, you shape your life the way you want it to be
5. Know the kinds of friend you move with 
6. And above all, have the fear of GOD.

  by: Ifeanyi John Chinyirioha.

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